I’ve actually realized that the world is full of judgmental folks who only see it through their narrow, often biased view.
Let me understand. What is your definition of being a “good person”. You must have some criteria to pass judgement on people. What are they? Democrat or Republican? Atheist or Theist? Christian? Muslim? Educated or “uneducated”? Race, cultural background, immigrant, natural citizen? City dweller or county dweller.
In the tremendous diversity of people how you paint so many you don’t even know with your personal brush and color of not being “good people” just because they choose to look elsewhere for female (or male) companionship is childish.