People are free to think what they want and love who the choose. Making those choices into a racial issue just plays into the pain of the nation. I am a white man married to a Chinese woman. Her Chinese family welcomed me with open arms, and my family welcomed her just the same. We made each other very happy.

Maybe this is not the volatile dynamic of black/white in this post, but we did date "interracially" before marriage, so I was drawn in. In my life I have learned that sight...seeing....is both a blessing and a curse. Seeing with an open heart is the blessing. Seeing with a closed one is the curse.