Two points:
One:You say most of your victories came through elections. I assume your losses also came from elections. That’s what happens in a democracy. You don’t win them all.

Two: the problem is not elections, but rather who we elect. People like Pelosi and McConnell have been controlling too much for too long. TERM LIMITS would go a long way toward making elections more impactful. As it is now elections are more about the Party than the People.